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A Fish out of Water

March 24, 2009 by Lance Somerfeld

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Today, I took Jake to our weekly class at Gymboree on the UES. Jake loves his weekly class! For those of you not familiar with Gymboree – the class starts with circle time singing songs like itsy bitsy spider and the Hokey Pokey. Then, they have a theme of the week activity. The theme this week is socialization- so all the kids hopped on the big banana tube and did motion rolls (see picture), then off to practice standing and crawling together. Very comical! Throw in a little baby soccer, meetup nyc dads groupparachute, and bubble time…and you now get the gist of this 45 minute Gym Class. It is a great workout for Jake. Even better, they have their free playgym after our class for 45 minutes – so it is really 1 1/2 hours at the gym for us. Jake is exhausted after class and takes a long nap as you could imagine!

So why are my “a fish out of water?” As you can see in the pictures, I am the only dad with 12 other moms and nannies. It is like this every week for us NYC at home dads! Don’t get me wrong, I am not upset about it. I enjoy the conversation with the moms about playing, nap schedules, and other classes to take in the hood. In fact, if I were selective to only take Daddy & Me classes, then I would be at home with Jake everyday – there are no Daddy & Me Classes! That is disappointing. I have nothing against the mommy and me classes/groups, but sometimes it would be nice to take a class with all dads! That is where our meet up group comes in – it gives me that opportunity on a weekly basis to hang with dads during the week.

Finally, our NYC Dads Group are partnering with Baby Fingers, a sign language class, to take our first Daddy & Me class with nine other stay-at-home and part-time at-home-dads. I look forward to sharing that experience with everyone soon.

If you know of a great class or even better, a Daddy & Me type class, please share it!

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Filed Under: entertainment, events, NYC Tagged With: at-home dads, Meetup, Meetup.com, stay-at-home dads

About Lance Somerfeld

Lance Somerfeld, co-founder of City Dads Group, lives with his wife and two children in New York City. He frequently contributes to the conversation about modern fatherhood, work-life balance, shifting gender roles, and brand’s marketing to dads. He has appeared on local and national television, including CNN, Today and Katie. He has been quoted by The New York Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, GQ, Parenting and The Atlantic.

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